Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Tony



      Yesterday, May 15th, was the birthday of my son-in-law, Tony. Amanda and Tony have been married now for six years. I only vaguely remember the first time I met Tony. Amanda had her LaGrange friends over to the house one night – she was probably a senior in high school then. Tony was one of the friends, and he was introduced along with the others. Kind of a blur, but my brain fills in the memory with his smile and a “nice to meet you.” Wish I could say I had a premonition about the two of them at that moment, but my premonitions have never proved true anyway.  It was a couple of years after that when Amanda and Tony had their first date, March 12th. Since then they have celebrated the anniversary of that date each year in special ways. On March 12, 2011, Tony proposed, and March 12th a year later they were married!       
Family Pic May 2018

At a Mexican Restaurant 2010 for my birthday!

         What strikes me most about Tony is his easy way with people. He’s attentive and patient with everyone. He is especially tolerant with me when I ask him questions that range from frantic computer issues to what should I bring for Christmas brunch? Lots of goofy questions.  Lots of patience. And by the way, Tony and Amanda’s Christmas brunches are the highlight of our holiday season! 
     My fondest memory of Tony, so far, is from the day Theo was born. As family members gathered into the hospital room to wish them all well, a nurse was teaching Tony different things, including how to bathe the baby.
Theo after the bath, an hour or so after his birth, January 2017
We all took a picture of Tony receiving instructions intently and handling little Theo excitedly, nervously, proudly, gently. Theo has picked two of the bestest parents a little guy could have!
19 20180516 Tony

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